One of the most important factors in starting and establishing a relationship is attraction. This encompasses mental, personality and yes, physical attraction. This posting is a follow up to one of my previous posts (42 year old frustrated submissive). In a pleasant surprise, I did receive a reply to my response on this posting. She …
In Modern society women are raised with the ideal they are equal to men, and can archive anything a man can. This ideal is perfectly fine. The intent of this posting is not to question or put this down. The intent of this posting is to bring to light that there are some women who …
The original ad is shown below. It has been edited to remove the location information. sub looking for new non MARRIED DOM – 42 OK i will try again…. I am looking for Dom/s relationship only. NOONE MARRIED. NOONE in there 20’s or even early 30’s for that matter. i know i sound like a …
In my time online I have come across women who have an interest in bondage though they are often unclear of the difference between “submission” and “slavery”. The difference between the two is greatly depends on the desires of the individual(s) involved. Submission involves the act of an individual willingly ceding control of her (or …
Earlier tonight I was in a yahoo chat room (hint, one of the few adult rooms left) and I came across the following: “44 bi sub f…alone in motel room…bored and lonely….would anyone like 2 spread my pics on the net while we chat? if so pm me!” And so I responded to her posting …
Earlier today I came across a personals listing from a woman who is looking to get into BDSM sighting a long held desire to submit. Her now former long term relationship ended because this desire of hers was not realized. It is my belief that had she been able to communicate these desires at the …
I have long been fascinated by how the strength (and susceptibility) of one’s mind. How it can greatly enhance one’s sense of pleasure if their mind is set in the right place. This can be especially potent when the dynamics of a D/s relationship are factored in. As I often say: “Capture the mind, control …
Hello and welcome. This is my first entry in what I’m sure will grown into and detailed and varied record my thoughts, opinions, stories and experiences. While there is not much to read at the moment besides some information about myself seen here, that will change as I slowly but surely add more entries as …