One of the most important things to have in a relationship is open communication. While this is usually easy to do with things such as the needs of the house and what to do for dinner; sex, in particular with respect to one’s desires and kinks is one thing that some find difficult to talk …
Last night I returned to Paddles once again. Once again I went on my own. I went with the intent on learning. I have always been interested in and dabbled in light erotic hypnotism. I have in the past, conditioned willing women to orgasm on command. What I witnessed tonight not only confirmed this, it …
To those of you visit the site regularly, you may have noticed a recent addition on the right side. This is a yahoo shout box. This connects to the yahoo ID I use for this site. The initial message that is shown is a welcome mesage, yes it kind of does bait you into chatting …
Tonight for the first time in six years I had no Halloween party to go to. I did not want to spend the night home. I decided to attend the fetish ball at Paddles. I dressed as a Death-Eater from the Harry Potter series, I had dress as this before back in 2007, but I …
Whenever possible, people will do all they can to seek out someone who shares a common intrest. Common intrests allow for quick bonding as a relationship develops. Occasionally, one finds a partner who is not into BDSM, otherwise known as a vanilla person. If things go well, the two will discuss their respective needs and …
Recently I had a conversation with a switch friend of mine who is currently exploring her Dominant side. She recently encountered a male submissive, who’s experience is comparatively much greater than her own. They had known one another as friends previously. From what I’ve been told, his previous Mistress was a harsh to the extreme. …
First I want to express my gratitude to those of you that have done so. Should any of you wish to share your own stories and experiences for postings, then feel free to contact me, the email to reach me can be found in a past posting and on the upper right side of the …
For this entry I have the pleasure of sharing a poem submitted by one of this blogs readers. With her permission I have posted the poem which will follow. As I am a big fan of mental bondage/conditioning this poem resonates with me. Your command lifts me to my feet. Your request has my …
Thanks to internet it is possible to find a community for just about every conceivable pursuit, interest, hobby, fetish etc. BDSM is no exception. In my opinion it is due to the internet that BDSM is undergoing a resurgence of interest and activity. In fact its through this medium that I discovered BDSM to begin …
As I’ve often said, “Capture the mind, control the body”. Arousal begins in the mind. A Dominant must take the time to get to know prospective submissive and vice versa. Physical attraction matters, it will always be a factor. If one is looking for a quick fling then one has no need to probe deeper. …