Today I’d like to shade some light on something that I realize only now, more than two years after starting my blog that I have not yet covered. At some point in our lives each of us has made the decision to pursue something, with respect to this blog and the subject matter that it …
Its been quite sometime since I last posted (prior to the last post there’s been a gap of over a month). I’ve reached a point where I’m running out of things to write about. I”m not really sure how to how to proceed with the this site witout changing its direction. I’ll think of something, …
All relationships, kinky or otherwise need a mutual rapport to progress. This can be difficult in cases where distance is a significant factor. Many people who come online in search of a partner will at one point or another engage in a form of online role-play, or sex chat. Weather it be text based in …
The world of BDSM, there are many types of people who have many varied interests and desires. Within this world of people, there are common desires and traits. Below is a listing of submissive archetypes. This is based on my own experiences and observations over time. As always I am writing form my own perspective …
Make a list you say? It may sound silly, but the act of writing something down, (or typing it) gets the mind going. Making a list of fetishes is a good step to take for anyone who isn’t sure what they may or may not like. There are many different things one can explore, its …
“A Master who mocks His slave’s worship of Him is not worthy of owning. A slave that submits by deception dishonors her Master and herself.” This quote was taken from the journal of a female submissive, who is a member of the BDSM community Collarme.com Inspired by the above quote and a chat conversation I …
After much pondering I’ve decided to make a facebook page as companion of sorts to this blog. Those that wish to connect with me then you can find me here: http://www.facebook.com/BDSM.Advisor Note, please do not send a blind add request, as I’ll reject it, Please mention that you find your way via this blog. Thank …
When speaking with someone into or curious of BDSM: Be polite first; chosen derogatory term (or honorific term) soon. There are many different and varied kinks and fetishes. Many different ideals, philosophies, and opinions; and as many different and varied people who are involved in BDSM in someway. To anyone new who is new to …
Some new updates to the look of my page have been made. That I’ve been meaning to do for sometime. Thanks to a snow storm that’s pounding Long Island (as I write this) I’ve been able to sit down really tweak the settings of my WordPress blog. So what’s new? The subscribe fill-in box on …
A reader recently pointed out to me that I neglected the actual “question” portion of my previous post.
Yes I mentioned in the beginning of my last post that the subject of one’s desires should be brought up, but I forgot to get into the “how” of doing it, as I go really into the three activities that could be suggested safely. Simply put I got carried away.