“Hey, I kind of have a problem… See my Sir has programmed himself to last a really long time in order to properly pleasure whomever he’s having sex with and, because of this, he often ends up not getting off when we have sex no matter what I do to try and help, or how long we have sex… He says he’s fine with it because all he wants from the experience is for me to get off and it’s really just not a problem for him sexually or emotionally or anything; but it really makes me feel insecure with both my ability and my attractiveness, and makes me feel like I’m not good enough to please him… It’s particularly a problem because I don’t feel like I’m being a truly good Pet unless I can serve him even though he aims to please me. Because honestly, I’ll get off if he does… It’ll make me feel good to see that I’m a good enough Pet to earn his orgasm… That’s really all I want from the whole thing, honestly. Is there anything I can even do about this situation…? Or am I just screwed…?”
My response:
First, I want to thank you for taking the time to write me. It’s greatly appreciated.
Now, to your letter. I don’t think you’re screwed. However, I do think that the task ahead of you will not be an easy one. As you pointed out, your Master has conditioned himself to resist climaxing. This again as you pointed out is for the purpose of ensure the pleasure of his partner (you). I myself adopt a similar mindset, in that I don’t climax until I get her off at least six times if not more. The reasoning for this kind of condition is to avoid the judgment, insult and ridicule that derives itself from the scourge of premature ejaculation. This as you know is a double-edged sword.
I can suggest a couple of things.
Have a heart-to-heart talk with him and express your desire to feel his cum inside you. Let him know how you’re feeling about this situation in the same way you have with me. If he can’t bring himself to talk about it, write him an email. Sometimes putting it in writing has a different and more potent effect than speaking with someone.
Take advantage of your role as a pet., beg for it. plead for it. sell him on the idea that nothing would make you happier than to feel his seed filling you completely. This is of course assuming that this block is a mental one. Begging for it will be an ego boost for him. He says he’s only concerned with your pleasure, which is understandable; that being said, it can’t hurt to stroke his ego while you’re gripping his cock deep inside you.
Remember that a climax is as much mental as it is physical, due to the block he’s put onto himself, this means you’ll have to dig deep into his head. Really play up his turn-ons. while at the same time saying that you want his cum. This is important as the him hearing this will get into his head. It’s possible that you may have to push some of your limits (within reason) if that means indulging in some of his fetishes that you may not agree with.
There is something may not have come to your mind. It is possible, however unlikely that your Master could possible be suffering from a form of erectile dysfunction / medical condition. Of course, you can’t know this until and if he reveals this to you. And if so, some treatment may be needed. If this is the case, it may ease some doubt you’re feeling, but this will transfer to him, and if so, he will need your support.
In my opinion your relationship with him is unbalanced. You’re a cup that needs to be filled, and he’s the stubborn tap won’t turn. If you know you’ve done everything you can, and he won’t budge, you may have to find another tap to fill your cup.
I hope it doesn’t come to that. I mean that with all sincerity. I do hope that things work out for you both. I hope that my words help.
Please do keep in touch.
Sir Chance.
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I’m new to all of this, so I apologize if this is the wrong place to ask a question. I’d like to start incorporating restraints; however they are usually used on me. I’m a foot shorter than my bf and easily 100 pounds lighter but he’s always wanted to be overpowered and tied down. Suffice it to say, I can’t hold him down long enough to tie him up. Is there any type of restraint that can be used to tie him down quickly while rendering him immobile?