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Earlier this evening, I came across a posting written by a female submissive. She desires to form a long term relationship with a Dominant man. Yet she is discouraged from the postings from men seeking women younger than she is. So she wrote a post question why this is.

Her Original Posting:

 

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I have a question I would like answered. I am a very loving kind hearted but sensual woman who would like to be ideally in a ltr/monogamous relationship, but when I look at what men are looking for in a sub or daddy relationship they want someone younger than me. Why is that? BTW I don’t cuss, cheat or manipulate, I just seek the honest love of a caring dom, I am a good girl, please can anyone tell me the answer without using four letter words? I was raised not to cuss.

My response:

Good evening.

I saw your posting and though I would share with you my own thoughts.

Older men seek younger women for reasons similar to reasons younger women seek older men:

Survival and replication. The allure of a younger woman is the hard-wired desire of procreation.

The desire for an older man is a need to seek out protection and comfort.

Are these the only reasons? No certainly not. There are issues of preference, fetish, and many others.There’s also the perception to consider. For example, a younger person is thought to be easier to mold/train/manipulate. A younger individual is more mailable, a good example of this would be a younger person is more likely to have her body modified by say tattoos or piercings if convinced.

The difficulty in doing this increases with the age of the intended subject. Older individuals are more experienced, more set in their ways; more cautious. This is not at all to say that an older person isn’t willing to make such changes, but is more likely to resist such changes.

Is there a solution to this dilemma? In my opinion, there’s only one. Its clear that you desire to be with someone who shares your sentiments on the D/s, “Daddy”/”daughter” dynamic. So, what’s a woman/girl like you to do? Post your own ad! Up to now, you’ve been reading postings that state preferences you cannot fully fit into. Turn the tables. compose a posting that makes clear your own desires, kinks and criteria. State what you’re looking for in a man and don’t be afraid to get specific and yes, even state an age range. Instead of being the one hopping to be picked, by the one doing the picking. Is this Dom-ish. Yeah a bit, but, consider this, You’re a woman, and as a woman you can position yourself to be an object of desire. This is not a negative thing by any means, its just way of bringing attention to you.

Here’s something else to consider, look at just the number of postings in a single day in each section. m4w, w4m. Smile when you come to the realization that the odds are in your favor.

Good luck in your search Cheers.

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