How to actually bring up the issue of wanting to be Dominated. – A follow up to my last post.

A reader recently pointed out to me that I neglected the actual “question” portion of my previous post.

Yes I mentioned in the beginning of my last post that the subject of one’s desires should be brought up, but I forgot to get into the “how” of doing it, as I go really into the three activities that could be suggested safely. Simply put I got carried away.

Now as for the “how” of going about bring up the topic, there’s always the direct “we need to talk” approach, however that is perhaps too strong, too forward for those that are more timid.

Instead one has to take advantage of circumstantial openings.

For example commenting aloud to your boyfriend (or lover) on key scenes in the movie “Secretary”, or just about any television show or movie that shows a mildly kinky moment.

A school girl being swatted by a nun using a ruler, A blindfolded woman being teased with strawberries by her lover,

and then make any of the aside suggestions or make one of your own:

“Mmmm I wouldn’t mind being spanked like that!”

“That is so hot being blindfolded like her!”

“What would you do to me if I were that bad?”

The idea here is to use any innuendo that comes up and turn it into an opportunity. Either to use as an ice-breaker to discuss one’s desires and/or engage in one of the three activities mentioned in the previous posting.

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