Sometimes you simply can’t change vanilla flavor, no matter how many toppings you put on it.

Whenever possible, people will do all they can to seek out someone who shares a common intrest. Common intrests allow for quick bonding as a relationship develops. Occasionally, one finds a partner who is not into BDSM, otherwise known as a vanilla person. If things go well, the two will discuss their respective needs and desires. Eventually the subject of BDSM does come up, as those into it will try to introduce it to their vanilla partner in the spirit of being sexually open.

While some partners will take to it gradually, and others will fully embrace it, there are some simply will not accept it, or simply cannot handle it.┬áIts better to speak one’s mind, and try something than to repress it. When chosing a partner sexual compatibility matters, it should be discussed and explored jointly. Though even with the best of intensions, some simply won’t change. The important thing is that both partners make the effort. If it is not meant to be it isn’t but what matters is making the effort and hopefully parting on good terms.

We only have one life, we must do what we can for our own, happiness, as well as our shared happines.

Go forth and indulge.

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