An aroused submissive, is a docile submissive.

As I’ve often said, “Capture the mind, control the body”.  Arousal begins in the mind.

A Dominant must take the time to get to know prospective submissive and vice versa. Physical attraction matters, it will always be a factor. If one is looking for a quick fling then one has no need to probe deeper. However for a reslationship to grow and take hold, more than one dimension is needed. One should be able to visualize the possibilites of the relationship as vividly as one visualizes their fantasies, idealy one should visualize both in tandem.

Speaking for myself: when a submissive can allow her mind to visualize, to accept the stimulation around her, her body will react even if the stimulation she experiences is not directly on her own body. So long as her mind is actively and continually engaged she will be more accepting of a Dominant’s guidence. Becoming  docile as a result. When a submissive reaches this state of mind, that is when the Domiant who has taken the time to get to know His sub can experement on her. Intensify things, test and push her boundries and explore.

It is also in this highly recptive state which is also known as subspace that the Domiant must be most careful and observe very closely the physical and mental condition of His submissive, and know when to say when. Gradually slow things down and provide the appropriate aftercare when needed.

As the old saying goes: “A mind is a terrible thing to waste”. So don’t. Use it often.

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