A tale of longinging, a need to bond.

I found this letter waiting for me in my inbox yesterday. It a wonderfully deep letter that I wanted to share. Of course I have the permission of the author to share this story. Following the letter is my response to her.

I have observed a man since 2008. There is something about him that has captured part of me. I think about this man every day and have done so since 2008.

I could not bring myself to flirt with him because I did not want to make him uncomfortable as I would see him twice a week and because I was always tongue-tied. And being tongue-tied is so NOT me.

Finally, in 2009, with a little back-bone, I paid him a compliment…oh geez…I said, and I’ll never forget the words, “If I had kept any amount of money each time the thought of you crossed my mind I would be a rich woman.”

He noticed me. He said he was a “freak”. We met. Nothing much happened. We talked about it and it was then that he shared he could not do what he would normally do with a woman as he was worried that I would find it disgusting or worse. He shared what he’s looking for is someone who is into role playing or has a fetish.  (Damn…my fetish is him.)

I figured it was over, but it is not. Things are starting to heat up again. I asked him if he would participate in a particular role play with me. I shared with him the “do’s, the don’ts and provided him with the “safe-word.” He said it sounded like fun to him. I shared I was ready to adapt. He asked if I was ready to be submit and I shared with him….”I will submit to you.”

So, yes this is my first time ever participating in a form of role play and I have no reservations doing so, though I want to know how does someone that has never role-played before, not disappoint the one who obviously has experience? Can it be done?

Your unbiased opinion would be appreciated.

Thanks…

Good evening.

Yes, its certainly possible to participate and enjoy yourself. The man you with will guide you, and it appears he as done so already as you’ve already discussed your do’s and don’ts and you’ve discussed a safeword. So long as you have an idea for what you’re about to experience, you should do fine. Trust in him to look after you, use your safe word if you need to. Part of the joy in submission is knowing that the one you give yourself to will look after you. With that in mind you should indulge yourself in the pleasure you will bring him by following his guidance and instructions while indulging in your own desires as well.

Don’t be afraid to look into some things like fetishes on your own, he might either know something about the fetish, or it may be something the two of you can explore together.

Don’t be afraid to ask if you’re doing okay, and don’t be afraid to tell him to spank you a little harder and so on. In time the two of you will get to know one another and things will only grow from there. Enjoy the process and learn about one another.

Communication is key, keep that lively and you’ll have no reason to be nervous.

Learn. Indulge. Enjoy.

Be safe.
Sir Chance.

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