Month: October 2012

The users and the used: An opinion on how the selfish-aggressive, the self-objectified and the predator/prey dynamic has warped the current perception of BDSM.

First I want to stress that this, like many of my posts is my opinion, based on observation. My opinion on the nature of the D/s relationship dynamic has always been that this, (or any kind) of relationship should be a symbiotic one. That the two, a Dominant, and a submissive are each halves of …