Tonight for the first time in six years I had no Halloween party to go to. I did not want to spend the night home.  I decided to attend the fetish ball at Paddles. I dressed as a Death-Eater from the Harry Potter series, I had dress as this before back in 2007, but I …

Whenever possible, people will do all they can to seek out someone who shares a common intrest. Common intrests allow for quick bonding as a relationship develops. Occasionally, one finds a partner who is not into BDSM, otherwise known as a vanilla person. If things go well, the two will discuss their respective needs and …