Recently I had a conversation with a switch friend of mine who is currently exploring her Dominant side. She recently encountered a male submissive, who’s experience is comparatively much greater than her own. They had known one another as friends previously. From what I’ve been told, his previous Mistress was a harsh to the extreme. …

First I want to express my gratitude to those of you that have done so. Should any of you wish to share your own stories and experiences for postings, then feel free to contact me, the email to reach me can be found in a past posting and on the upper right side of the …

Thanks to internet it is possible to find a community for just about every conceivable pursuit, interest, hobby, fetish etc. BDSM is no exception. In my opinion it is due to the internet that BDSM is undergoing a resurgence of interest and activity. In fact its through this medium that I discovered BDSM to begin …

As I’ve often said, “Capture the mind, control the body”.  Arousal begins in the mind. A Dominant must take the time to get to know prospective submissive and vice versa. Physical attraction matters, it will always be a factor. If one is looking for a quick fling then one has no need to probe deeper. …

For some time now, I’ve been asked to share the story of how I got into BDSM. I knew I had written out so I wouldn’t forget at some point in the past. I knew I had. I found it, edited it for spelling and typos and have re posted it here